#teacher abuse

[blogofsara]

TW: Mention Of Abuse

I was psychologically, emotionally and verbally abused by my elementary school teachers but I didn't become a Serial Killer who kills teachers who yell at their students..... Dear Rosamund, your logic makes no sense! (Original screen: Auric180).

[residents-of-the-darkforest]

Dark Forest Residences: Buckhackle

Aliases / Nicknames: Uncle, Buck

Gender: male

Sexuality: heterosexual

Family: Lighthoot (mother), Tansyhowl (father), Tinestar (sister), Poppychatter, Tadpolemask (nieces), Cloudleap (mate, formerly), four unnamed unborn kits

Other Relations: Elkstar (mentor), Tadpolemask, Blightfrond, Orchidtooth, Rustpaw, Wornpaw (former apprentices)

Clan: Sandclan

Rank: warrior

Characteristics: harsh mentor, killed apprentices by training them too roughly

Number of Victims: 5

Number of Murders: 2

Murder Method: smashing against a rock in anger, exposure

Known Victims: Tadpolemask, Blightfrond, Orchidtooth, Rustpaw, Wornpaw

Victim Profile: his apprentices

Cause of Death: killed by coyotes

Cautionary Tale: ??

Story:

“Again!”

Wornpaw panted under the harsh dryleaf sun. “Mentor, may I take a break? Please?”

Buckhackle sneered from the shade. “Once you master the move.”

Wornpaw struggled to keep her balance. “Please?” she asked.

Buckhackle shook his head. “Stay out here training until the Howling time. Then you can come back to camp.”

Buckhackle left for camp, and admittedly forgot about the apprentice. Her family mourned when she vanished, especially his mate, Cloudleap--but he didn’t care, and despite the multiple complaints, he was given an apprentice the next moon.

He trained Rustpaw even harder, pushing him to be stronger, faster, tougher.

One day, Rustpaw messed up a simple move. It was such a stupid thing, but Buckhackle saw red, slamming the apprentice down over and over again, not stopping until the Howling time started.

He had looked down at the little body with a mix of horror and frustration. Why should he be punished for the weakness of others? He threw Rustpaw’s corpse off a cliff and started back to camp.

He never made it past the coyotes.

Additional Information:

--Submission by @ambitiousauthor​

--Compared to him, Tadpolemask’s training looks gentle.

-He was Wornpaw’s cousin-in-law before Cloudleap died, as well as Orchidtooth’s brother-in-law.

[the-joyful-abyss]

يعني ايه ٩ ساعات متواصلين شغال محاضرات ولسه مكمل كمان ساعتين 🫠🫠🫠

[afniel]

On the very first day of kindergarten the teacher only gave me a gold star on my chart (which is a pretty shit system of public humiliation to begin with) expressly because it was the very first day of kindergarten. We were told to do some thing or another in our little gym period that I don't even recall what it was, and my reaction was basically, nah, I don't want to. This got me labeled as difficult and rebellious for a disturbingly long time, considering I was five.

I didn't at all see the issue though, and you know why? My mom gave me a pretty healthy amount of bodily autonomy. That's it. Shouldn't be anything special. Yeah, there were of course things I had to do like bathe and eat and take medicine if I was ill, but for the most part I was not accustomed to being ordered to do things I didn't want to do, and why should I have been? I was a child. I wasn't in the military. A babysitter once made me stay at the table for two hours because I refused to 'clean my plate.' I wasn't hungry and didn't want to eat a single plain pizza crust, and why the hell would you force-feed someone who's perfectly capable of telling you when they're done eating? We didn't have that babysitter again because my mother rightfully saw that as abusive. I wasn't even particularly 'picky' though having undiagnosed neurodivergency I definitely had sensory issues. I was just finished eating in a completely normal way and that should have been accepted.

It didn't stop being like that all the time until I got to middle school. I had a teacher who did a Student of the Week thing which I was never once awarded and at the end of the school year, she announced to everyone that, very begrudgingly, she GUESSED she HAD to award it to me for the last week, because I hadn't got it EVEN ONCE yet and she didn't want me to feel LEFT OUT, so congratulations or WHATEVER, ugh.

(I was consistently an honor roll student, by the fucking way! I was in the gifted program! Which only made the teacher that year hate me more, because I was supposed to be sooooo smart but I couldn't even remember to do my homework or pay attention, so what the hell was wrong with me? Yeah, we call that ADHD, it's a learning disability. Frequently comes with being labeled as gifted.)

It's been a while since I had a nightmare about elementary school being some kind of prison-like hellhole where the teacher was arbitrarily cruel and a bully to me all the time and I was trapped there forever and nobody could save me for no reason I could tell, even though nothing was actually keeping me there. I don't really miss those. They were a little too close to reality.

Being a mom and an anarchist and trying to figure out the whole "parenting" song and dance from that perspective makes me think 8-year-olds have about got it figured out. I hate school. I hate tests. I hate bedtime.

[waambles]

We love Gale memes, we don’t stand real Gale slander.

[weareweirdpeople]

Maybe its just me but I think its really fucked up that the only way teachers can "help" a child is with cps and the fucking police. I think its really fucked up that they're constantly talking about "tell a trusted adult" when sometimes you just don't fucking have one. Because all of them were bad options. I think its fucked up that my, and many many many children's only fucking options have been tell someone and put everything in danger or do nothing and continue on in silence. I think its fucked up that even without saying it I had to start understanding that no matter how kinda a teacher, or counselor, or school staff member was to me at times, that they would never put me over them being held liable or their job. I would never be that important. They get to pat themselves on the back while I get put in handcuffs and put treated like an example of what not to do as if im not even there. I think its really fucked up that at a certain point it will never matter how nice a teacher is, no matter how many "I know it sucks...." or "I'm sorry but it's my job..."s or "I don't want to have to do this..."s you get, because its always the same fucking thing. Your a liability, and no adult is going to risk their job with a child that they could easily just hand to someone else more 'qualified' to handle.

[one-time-i-dreamt]

One of my teachers from school was an evil doctor/Arby's manager, and he abused both powers in equal measure.

[ceoandslutler]

not to always complain about antis but why do they read/watch kuro if they hate sebastian this much

he's the mc how do u have beef w him so bad, interpret him however u want but if you genuinely dislike him... why put yourself thru the torture of reading his story (and this is about him, no way to argue against that)

like are you just gonna ignore all his development with the other servants... he is the epitome of an allegorical queer coded outcasted non human character who finds kinship in other odd (queer) people. how are you ignoring that lol

you can interpret main characters as morally grey or evil (a lot of times they are) but atp it feels like antis hate him and ignore any changes or developments in his personality, at least acknowledge him as part of the 'phantomfam' he helped to create. there would be no phantomfam w/o sebastian because there would be no o!ciel and phantomhive manor w/o sebastian,,, hell, there'd be no kuroshitsuji w/o sebastian. actually fun fact it's called 黒執事 kuroshitsuji (black butler) not 貴族子 kizokuko (noble kid).

they hate him until they sexualise him into the molds they want, usually within the ships they like [nothing wrong with those ships per se but they're viewed as 'correct' while the most canonical ship is wrong(?)] or they only love him after they take away all his sexual characteristics and turn him into a cat loving spinster, a dad/mom figure with no other characteristics other than (1) love cat, (2) dad/mombastian, (3) cooking and cleaning, nothing else but that ruins him because he's not that flat of a character in the original work... from what we've seen he likes a lot of things, he enjoys playing this butler game with ciel, he likes being mean and flirty, he likes being around certain humans like agni who he genuinely seemed to respect despite being a demon, he likes the concept of death and finds it beautiful, he has an eye for fashion and a lot more.

the way they treat him is akin to how society treated women in the victorian era... either the angel of the house (maternal figure, or in his case, paternal but they do momify him a lot, no sexualised identity or made limited and very 'pure'/'demure') or the hated demonised prostitute (evil evil demon taking advantage of little boy, no parental feelings and no feelings AT ALL, worthless). it's laughable how half of the fandom have such an innate dislike of sebs that they want to deny the changes within him or in the best case scenario, they'd minimise it. not to mention how they want ciel to be the perfect little sex-repulsed victim but other people have made posts about that before. my focus is on sebastian who is so grossly mischaracterised by antis, they are either purposely misunderstanding him or just very obtuse.

you guys have two interpretations of him and both are either dead wrong or at best extremely misinformed lol

[g0ddamnb0x]

Considering how bad Gideon and Harrow's childhoods were, I find it very sadfunny how in NtN it is a plot point how a teacher mistakes Nona for a abused child.

[mxtxfanatic]

Just for the record, I actually don’t hate any mdzs character. Mxtx’s stories are so well-crafted that I love the roles that every character plays. I love the chills and digust that Jin Guangyao inspires in me. I loved the hatred that Xue Yang causes to flare up in me when I reread the Yi City arc. I love the amusement I get every time Jiang Cheng lives up to his failed-hero role, doubly so when I remember that he is also a failed-villain because Xue Yang is actually the better version of him lmao. I love dissecting Nie Mingjue’s hypocrisy in what it means when Wei Wuxian thinks of him as an “upholder of morality.” I love the pity that I feel for Lan Xichen such that I struggle to commit to how I view him just like how he struggles with how to view those he loves. And the complexity and diversity of each character’s life experiences and autonomous choices is the icing on the cake that makes fans’ (me included) obsessions over them wholly understandable.

What I hate is feeling coerced into liking a character how fandom wants me to like them, especially if the “evidence” supporting liking said character is just popular fanon that the fandom has taken as gospel truth. The more I feel pressured into ignoring a character’s canon personality to adopt a fanfic version of them whose only similarity is that they share a name, the harsher I want to be with my critique of them. Don’t give me morally righteous!Nie Mingjue who totally would’ve defended the Wen and I won’t give you hypocrite!Nie Mingjue who deserved to be cut into pieces, just not by the person who did it. Don’t give me best brother, best jiujiu!Jiang Cheng and I won’t give you pathetic manbaby!Jiang Cheng who deserved to have Wei Wuxian’s golden core removed from him the hard way for his ungratefulness and for his sister to come back to life to bitch slap him for how he treats her son. Don’t give me best bro wangxian shipper!Lan Xichen and I won’t give you morally weak!Lan Xichen who deserved every bit of the psychological torture Nie Huaisang put him through for his inability to truly stand by any of his brothers, biological or sworn.

Don’t give me some “everyone is secretly good with no flaws” bullshit and I won’t feel the need to balance it out by listing every single one of their sins and nailing it to the door like Martin Luther. I like these characters. Don’t turn me into a hater, cause if you think I’m mean now? Lol

[komsomolka]

jedi order bootlickers are so spoiled panicking everytime star wars media dares to portray their magical cops as anything other than paragon saints. they're going easy on those suckers. if i was in charge i would have shown the unchecked child abuse which will realistically happen to padawans under such system. i wish we were given jedi knight palpatine like character which uses the rot in the order/lack of autonomy and respect given to padawans/his outer pristine appearances to get away with serial abusive behavior against his charges.

[us-the-voices-and-more-voices-2]

I don’t know who need to hear this.

but if highschool, college, university, or just anything like that is stressing you out to the point of suicidal thoughts and tendencies

you just have to quit, there’s nothing wrong with it.

your life is worth so much more than stupid grades or a degree.

for all the people in highschool who were always told “if you don’t do high school you will never get into college/university” I’m so fucking sorry but those people were lying their fucking asses off.

you don’t need a highschool education to get into shit, hell it’s mostly about the money. Knowledge is awesome and valuable but it’s not worth killing yourself for.

don’t burn out in highschool literally this is not even a fucking joke it DOES NOT MATTER fuck highschool.

grades are a sham, the education system is flawed as hell, and your life IS WORTH MORE THAN A 100%/A+

your life is worth so much more than that, grades don’t matter you’ll hurt yourself so much if you keep thinking that.

you can homeschool, you can become a apprentice, you can learn well anything you want online now! You can call up a local science teacher and ask them to tutor you, HELL! do whatever it takes to keep your life and your love for knowledge.

school sucks, I know too many people to say otherwise. Your feelings are valid you ARE NOT A FAILURE for not doing amazing at your homework or at school fuck anyone who says that!

genuinely those fuckers don’t know shit about anything, learning is mistakes and failures and learning FROM IT if you never got a chance to try again how is it your fault you didn’t improve?

don’t kill yourself over school that is such a stupid thing to do, you can quit school and still get a education!!!! people just want you to stay in school and get abused and stressed to death.

I taught myself so much, because the current ways we teach people fucking sucks ass.

remember the grades and numbers and all that shit does not matter, what matters is that you love learning things and you keep learning.

I will fucking slap you dead ass in the face if you say anything more, if your family is abusive and you have to be a high achiever? WELL still don’t fucking kill yourself over their dumb fuck obsession with you being “good at school” there’s no such thing as winning and losing at learning!!!!!!!!

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS WINNING OR LOSING IN LEARNING!

genuinely there’s no such thing! You just don’t get it the first time! But learning and education is about love for knowledge it’s about kindness and respect it’s about finding new things it’s about being happy and knowing things you never did before!

it’s not about you “failing” it’s about learning that’s fucking it.

don’t kill yourself over the modern education system take fucking strikes, advocate for no time limits, advocate for better mental healthcare, advocate and SCREAM protest against it all.

your life is worth living, your life is beautiful and you have done everything to deserve it, you are someone is is worth something, and I will listen and we will fight.

you will get to the next day you will get to the next one after that you will live happily even if you think it’s impossible.

you will and you will love you will cry and you will see and dream and live a life YOU want.

abolish school, and we will make a new system that isn’t fucking what it was!

you are worth so much more than grades and papers, so don’t think so hard about it. You are you and you are worth it <3

-sincerely your local suicidal fucker

[anonyme-glace]

Bonjour!

19, here to repost to my hearts desire and share all the stuff I love to read! I don’t post photos of me, and I’m not looking for anything off tumblr but I’d love to talk to you. This is a KINK BLOG and is a place for my FANTASIES. I do not condone most of the things I post on here, in real life. 🌸💗

Some kinks are in the hashtags below!

I do not do: blood, scat, animals (just ask before assuming I’m okay with something)

All of these are just fantasies and not smt I want or condone in real life!!!

[one-time-i-dreamt]

My teacher traumadumped on me because he had just gotten out of an abusive marriage. Also, he was shirtless.

[scumvillainess]

au where baek suryong from best teacher baek dies again and is reincarnated as none other than wu yanzi, a notorious rogue cultivator.

this really isn’t a big deal in the grand scheme of things but for a young shen jiu, this changes everything.

[bookshelfdreams]

hey do y'all ever think about the fact that Charles probably has told Edwin about being beaten as a child at some point during their 34 years of friendship? And that Edwin likely never found it remarkable enough to ask further questions because back when he was alive, beating children was completely normal